Affleck and Lopez have been a steady presence in the lives of each other’s kids in the last few years, so it makes sense that they would make the effort for Affleck’s three kids: Violet, 19, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12 and Lopez’s two kids:16-year-old twins Max and Emme.

Even though Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez are reportedly ironing out the details of their divorce, the former super couple appear determined to maintain an amicable relationship and met up last weekend to exchange Christmas presents for themselves and their children.

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez haven’t finalized their divorce yet, but it seems like they are finding a rhythm to their post-split relationship. They were spotted at the private club, Soho House, in West Hollywood on Sunday, Dec. 22, enjoying a pre-holiday lunch together, but they also did something else very sweet for each other.